by
Fr. Paul O'Sullivan, O.P. [E.D.M.] With Eccles. Appr., 1949, Portugal
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Chapter 13
THOUGHTS ON PATIENCE
Everyone can be patient, no matter how excitable he may be by
temperament. Some of the Saints who were most notable for their
sweetness were naturally excitable, nervous and bad-tempered, as for
instance, St. Francis de Sales.
How to be patient. Let us see
how patient people are happy. One goes
to purchase things in a shop where the owner is patient and affable,
but we avoid a shop where the clerks are irascible. Among those whom we
know, the best loved are those who are kind and patient.
When visiting the sick, we notice how those who are patient suffer
relatively little. The impatient ones intensify their pains a thousand
times.
Walking in a crowded street, if we observe the passersby, we see some
that are hasty, disagreeable, rude; whereas others are calm and
dignified.
This should serve as a daily lesson for us, a daily reminder.
Doctors tell us that impatient and excitable people suffer very much
from heart troubles and brain troubles and shorten their lives
considerably, even by many years.
Everyone who wishes to be happy, to be loved, to have a long life,
should make every effort to be calm and patient and should ask God
fervently in all his prayers to make him patient.
Our Lord tells us, "Learn of Me to be meek and humble of heart; and you shall find peace to your souls."
Each day let us try anew to be patient, and still more patient. If we
live with disagreeable people, who offend and even insult us, we must
take no notice of them. Let us only think of ourselves.
Three rules: Never speak when you are angry. Never lift your voice.
Never say a disagreeable word. In the home an impatient person is a
devil. He is unhappy himself; he makes others unhappy; he commits
countless sins.
A patient person is an angel, is loved by everyone, is happy himself and is loved by God.
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