by
Fr. Paul O'Sullivan, O.P.
[E.D.M.]
With Eccles. Appr., 1949, Portugal
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Chapter 8: THE PRINCIPAL DUTIES OF THE DAY: PART 2
4. EATING
This is another all-important duty of our lives, one too which
ought to inspire us with gratitude to God for the abundant and good
food He gives us. Alas, eating is a duty which for many is not only
devoid of merit but the occasion of many sins!
We should commence our meals by saying the usual short grace: "Bless
us, O Lord, and these Thy gifts which we are about to receive from Thy
bounty, through Christ Our Lord. Amen," asking God to bless us and the
food and drink which we are about to consume. This blessing will
certainly please God and give our food an additional nutritive value.
On one occasion wicked men sought to kill St. Benedict by offering him
a glass of poisoned wine. The Saint, as was his wont, made the Sign of
the Cross over the wine before tasting it; whereupon, the glass was
shattered into pieces and the malice of his false friends made
manifest.
Doctors assure us that much illness is caused by eating too much, by
eating too hastily, and by eating what is not good for us. Many commit
these faults, which are injurious to both soul and body.
A safe rule to follow is to arise from table before being fully satisfied, but rather with an inclination to eat more.
Mr. Gladstone at the age of 80 declared that he attributed his great
age and splendid health to the fact that he ate slowly, and carefully
masticated his food. Eminent doctors advise their patients to observe
carefully what foods agree best with them and what are likely to do
them harm, choosing the former and avoiding the latter. Those who
follow this sage advice will enjoy good health and save themselves from
many sins.
SOME ADDITIONAL HINTS
We are reminded by the bread we take and the meat we eat of the
Heavenly Bread we have received so often in Holy Communion, and of the
Flesh of Jesus Christ which we have eaten at the Sacred Table.
This thought is a beautiful Spiritual Communion.
TWO LITTLE PRAYERS
"O My God, I offer Thee this act in union with Jesus Christ, in
the power of the Holy Spirit and in praise of Thine Eternal Majesty."
This prayer, Our Lord assured St. Gertrude, gives indescribable value to any act we perform.
"O my God, I offer Thee the awful thirst Jesus Christ suffered in the
Passion, His fast in the desert, His Divine moderation during His life
on Earth."
This prayer obtains pardon for any want of abstemiousness and for any gluttony in eating and drinking we may be guilty of.
Let us be content with the food which is placed before us.
St. Paul's words must be before our minds:
"Whether you eat or drink, or whatsoever else you do, do all to the glory of God." (1 Cor. 10:31).
We should not be unchristian in showing our dislike or discontent when
our food is not just to our liking. If there is something very wrong
with what is placed before us, then we may call attention to it
courteously. We must eat as intelligent beings, not as animals.
5. SLEEPING
We devote 7 or 8 hours a day to sleep, that is a third part of our
lives. Few Christians derive from their rest the merit they might
easily obtain. These 7 or 8 hours of every day are for many lost hours,
and in some cases the occasion of sins of slothfulness.
What a pity to lose 8 hours every day! Some sleep too little, some too much, some yield to excessive laziness in arising.
The following suggestions will enable us to transform these 8 hour's sleep into 8 hours of prayer and merit.
a) Our sleep is a sacred duty imposed on us by God, and its fulfillment ought to be an act of obedience to God.
b) We ought to say our night prayers slowly and devoutly, asking for a good night's rest.
c) Let us offer our sleep to Our Lord in union with His sleep during
His life on Earth. Bear in mind that every action united to the acts of
Our Lord has an indescribable value. Priests, before beginning their
Office, unite it with the prayer of Jesus when on Earth.
d) Let us offer every breath we draw, every beating of our hearts
during the night as so many acts of love for God. Thousands of acts of
love every night!
e) Our dear Angel Guardian is with us all night, watching over us, just
as a tender mother watches over her sick child. Say a few loving words
to this dear Angel before closing your eyes.
j) Good Christians sprinkle holy water every night over their persons and bed as defense against the devil.
g) If we cannot sleep, let us offer this weariness in honor of the
three hours Jesus Christ passed on the hard bed of the Cross. Let us go
on repeating the Name of Jesus, and this will help us to get the
desired rest.
h) Regarding rising, we ought to form the habit of getting up
immediately when our clock strikes or when we are called. The habit of
jumping up quickly makes rising more easy. Laziness or delay in getting
up makes it more difficult. It is also a bad beginning for the day, a
beginning claimed by the devil.
i) When dressing, we should accustom ourselves to repeat frequently the
Holy Name of Jesus. These first moments of the day are most precious,
and we should offer them to God. This habit will guarantee us the help
and protection of God during all the day.
An amusing fact is told of a young woman who was rather lazy and slow
in getting up. On being called one morning she turned over again and
said, "I am tired this morning; I will sleep a bit longer." She heard a
voice, as of one lying beside her, which said, "Do, do, and I will
remain with you." Recognizing the devil, she bounded from her bed and
was never again inclined to sloth when arising.
We may well apply this fact to ourselves, for it is quite certain that
if we are lazy and slothful, the devil is really beside us and snatches
the first fruits of the day from God.
How many thousand Catholics could easily hear Holy Mass and receive its
indescribable graces if they were less lazy in getting up!
Frequently, too, laziness in arising makes us hurry over our morning
prayers or even neglect them entirely. This is a very grave fault and
may cause disastrous consequences. No one should dare to omit or say
hurriedly his morning prayers.
6. THE PROBLEM OF LIFE
Suffering is thought by many to be the great evil of life. Oh,
if they could only avoid it! If they did find a way of avoiding it,
that would be the greatest evil of their lives. All about suffering.
Our Lord has given us a most perfect redemption. He could have
dispensed the law of suffering if He so willed. Why does God, being of
infinite goodness and mercy, ask us to suffer? For the simple reason
that suffering is a very great grace.
Our suffering is a share, a small but most valuable share, in the Passion of Our Dear Lord. It is priceless in value
-----if we only accept it and offer it in union with Christ's Passion.
He has suffered unspeakable agonies for each one of us. Are we such arrant cowards as to refuse to suffer a little for Him?
How little gratitude we show for all that He has done for us! The
easiest and best way of thanking Him is to offer our daily crosses and
trials for love of Him. The one big trouble about suffering is that we
do not know how to suffer. We have no idea of its merits.
The secret is to suffer with patience and serenity. Then suffering loses all its sting, all its bitterness.
If we only remember that it is Our Sweet Lord Himself who asks us to
bear these daily trials for love of Him, suffering loses its horrors.
God gives us abundant strength and grace to bear our crosses, if we ask Him.
Many good and pious Christians never think of asking God to help them
to bear their crosses! Therefore, their crosses weigh heavily on them.
Our sufferings are the purest gold in our lives. Five minutes'
suffering is of greater worth than twenty years of pleasure and
happiness.
The Son of God suffered, His Immaculate Mother suffered, the Apostles,
the Saints, all God's friends suffered. Suffering therefore must be a
great grace.
One of the most lamentable evils in our human lives is that we lose the immense rewards which our sufferings ought to merit.
We fear suffering, we hate it, we revolt. It is not the suffering, but
this revolt, that makes suffering unbearable and makes us cross,
irritable, peevish. On the other hand, suffering borne patiently brings
out all the beautiful traits of our character. It refines us as fire
purifies and refines gold.
One fact well worth remembering is that our daily sufferings, the least
as well as the greatest, if borne well, merit for us a crown of
martyrdom.
A second is that the priceless graces and rewards which our sufferings should bring us are lost if suffering is borne badly.
Consequently, let us remember this about suffering:
1) That it is our share of the Passion of Jesus Christ; therefore, it has indescribable merit.
2) That, if borne with patience for the love of God, it loses all its sting and bitterness.
3) That if we ask God, He will most certainly give us abundant strength to bear the sufferings He sends us.
4) Our sufferings will save us from the fearful pains of Purgatory.
5) Suffering, well borne, makes us Saints.
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