Pornography Is Harmless Because Sexuality is Healthy and Many People Use It
A MESSAGE FOR MEGYN KELLY AND FOX NEWS
by Pauly Fongemie
January 25, 2014
Feast of the Conversion of St. Paul
Part I
The recent news item about a Wisconsin school teacher who was fired
after it was discovered he looked at pornography while in the
classroom, and whose union sued the school, winning hundreds of
thousands
in back pay for him and classroom reinstatement afforded us more than
one lesson. Although the school administration has given students the
choice of opting out of the class for a study hall, the message that
this union victory teaches is so appalling I shudder. How could any
sane person think that a man who wills to be stimulated by such impure
images in front of children is fit to teach, period?!! The
story was a banner feature throughout the evening broadcasts of FOX
News: the parental outrage and inexplicable behavior of the teachers'
union. One guest commentator, supposedly a Christian, from the left,
thought that the outcome was okay because she saw nothing wrong in the
teacher's behavior. One would think that we had learned a thing or two
from the experience of the Catholic Church -
priests who saw nothing indecent about porn tended to practice the
unmentionable with young men and boys. One does not have to be a
behavioral psychologist to hear alarm bells going off. At least the
very real possibility, even probability, that here we are refusing to
deal with not only a pervert, but a menace in the classroom.
This was bad enough until one of the FOX hosts appeared as a
commentator and legal expert on the O'Reilly Factor: she boldly
claimed that porn was not a bad thing in of itself because "many people
view it" or words to that effect, adding that sexuality was good,
implying that porn is normal sexuality, etc. While she thought it was
wrong for the teacher to look at porn in the classroom she was on the
hustings to make sure the people are not judgmental about smut just as
she is outraged to think that some people still believe that
contraception is immoral [another program, but closely connected
subjects]. Miss Megyn Kelly did not
expand on what the purpose of the gift of human sexuality was for and
in what context. Thus, the inference could be drawn that normal people
can look at porn and be moral while remaining whole; that anyone who
condemns the vice is to
be condemned, a type of hypocrisy if you will. The fact that Miss
Kelly, who otherwise appears to be a very fine young woman of
considerable knowledge and talent does not recognize the insidious
nature of all porn, its prurience and addictive nature, speaks volumes
about the general mindlessness and ignorance of the public at large and
the
confusion about our sexual being as created by God. Now, I am certain
that Miss Kelly strives to be a good wife and mother and that as best
as she is able, she is succeeding; however she seems clueless and so
much so that she does not know and she does not know that she does not
know. She has plenty of company. We only have to
look at all the conflicting opinions over the immutable
nature of God-given sexual gender and general acceptance of certain
types of operations, sometimes at public expense, to grasp how
widespread this moral problem is, at its heart engendered by confusion,
not always ill will. There was a time, not so long ago when there was
recognition by most people that gender is not a project for
transformation because of psychosis or identity crisis. But then these
surgical procedures were not perfected, as if the possibility itself
confers moral legitimacy and merits societal approval. A part of the
natural law itself holds that we are not obligated to do everything
that is humanly obtainable just because we can, but rather we ought to
do what is right, that is morally permissible in recognition that human
nature is not up for re-arranging, particularly in the purpose of
sexuality and gender. Many years ago, when society was on the cusp of
inversion, I coined the phrase, "gender-bender." Today it sounds almost
flippant for the politically correct now dictates that society is
obligated to go beyond mere recognition of making the abnormal normal,
it must endorse it, or else those who refuse are deemed abnormal and
indecent, to be shunned!
Man was created by God to spend eternity with Him. Since God is all
holy, man has the obligation - which he must choose or reject through
free will - to sanctify himself, to become as pure as possible, pure in
thought, heart and body. Just as our bodies are what we eat, so
our intellects become what we read or view in imagery. The intellect is
one of the higher faculties of the soul and what we allow to influence
and inform the intellect directly affects the soul and its condition
before Almighty God. Impure foods pollute the body and impure words and
images stain the soul as night follows day. This is so elementary that
to fail to understand this relationship is sheer folly.
What is pornography [hereafter referred to as porn] and why is it so
dangerous to the soul of the one who views it and to those he or she
has relationships with?
As always, let us define our terms:
According to
Webster's Third International Dictionary "pornography"
comes from the Greek words, "porne,"meaning a harlot, prostitute, or
whore, and "graphos," meaning a writing or depiction. Both words joined
together mean a "A depiction or description of the activities of
whores."
Webster also defines this as "A depiction of licentiousness or
lewdness," or "A portrayal of erotic behavior designed to cause sexual
excitement."
Modern society generally categorizes porn into two types: "Soft" porn
and "Hard" porn. The US Supreme Court has equated the latter with
obscenity. There have been several incremental cases but the one most
often cited is "California 354 US 476." Anything else may loosely be
called "indecent" material, or "Soft" porn. Actually this is quite
irrelevant as the one leads to the other and both destroy the soul and
impact the human personality immensely.
What are the main harmful effects of Porn?
1. Harm to the
Soul; 2. Harm to Personal Morality and
Chastity; 3. Harm to Public Morality; 4. Harm to
Marriage; 5. Harm of Violence Toward
Women [Men]; 6. Harm of Degradation of
Women [Ibid.];
7. Harm to Children; 8. Harm of stimulations resulting in Rape; 9. Harm
of Contracting AIDS and other Venereal Diseases in Peep Show Booths and
Spreading the Same to the Public; 10. Harm to Performers in the
production of porno films and videos; 11. Harm to Performers in Nude
Dancing Establishments; 12. Harm to innocent persons criminally
assaulted and murdered by those stimulated by porn, including Serial
Murderers; and 13. Harm to those innocents who are forced to look at
indecency and obscenity in public, everyday life as they conduct their
necessary life activities.
This last is
pertinent like never before because porn or smut is everywhere, without
any semblance of the knowledge of shame as occurred to Adam and Eve in the
Garden of Eden. The Church has always taught that even the gaze at
another who is partially unclad without the desire for arousal of
venereal gratification,
is still a venial sin. Imagine how many mortal sins objectively
speaking are committed today because of the rampant indecency of
ordinary folks in public. It is too much to contemplate! Simply
entering the line at a supermarket cash out is an escapade that one
dreads for all the impure images that assault one.
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